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Should My Teenager Get A Debit Card?

October 8, 2014
By Brock Kernin
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getting a debit card, teenager advice, parenting tips
While we were lifting weights on Thursday my fifteen year old son surprised me with the following question:

“Dad, can I get a debit card?”

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He went on to explain his request. He plays a lot of online games, and he commonly uses his the funds he’s earned through lawn mowing or general allowance to purchase them. The usual process goes like this:

  • Him asking me if he can buy a new game
  • Him giving me money from his wallet
  • Me filling out the purchase form with my debit card

His main complaint with this process is that sometimes he wants to buy a new game to play with his friends when I’m not around, or sleeping. As we talked about it, the more I liked the idea. We listed out the pros and cons of getting him a debit card linked to his own account:

Pros:

  • I could electronically deposit his funds instead of remembering to get cash
  • He could make purchases without me being around
  • Since I would still have access to his account I could monitor his purchases
  • It would require him to exercise a new level of financial responsibility through keeping track of deposits and purchases to know his balance.

Cons:

  • If he wanted cash to go to a football game or somewhere that didn’t accept debit cards he would have to go to an ATM.

We decided that the Pros outweigh the Cons and decided to go ahead and get him a bank account with a debit card linked to it. This account would be separate from his savings account, which I don’t want him to be able to touch. For times when he does need cash, I may be able to give him cash I may have on hand and electronically transfer funds out of his account.

As a parent, I’m most excited about the prospect of him taking more responsibility for his finances, while still being able to monitor what he’s doing with his money. It allows him to grow up a little, while we’re still able to help him identify and correct mistakes while the stakes are relatively low.

What do you think, is fifteen old enough for a teenager to have a debit card?

Brought to you courtesy of Brock

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Brock Kernin

Brock is a software engineer by day and personal finance blogger at night. He is a fitness junkie and enjoys grilling and smoking meat. Married with two children,  Brock strives to improve his skills as a husband and father, and is always on the lookout to stretch his family’s budget as far as he can.

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Comments

  1. Michelle says

    October 8, 2014 at 12:26 pm

    I think this is great. I opened my first bank account and received my own debit card at the age of 14. All of the money was mine that I earned and it taught me a lot about my finances.

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  2. Adam @ Money Bulldog says

    October 8, 2014 at 3:39 pm

    Yeah I think 15 is a great age to start with something like this. As you say, as long as you can still monitor what he’s spending his money on then it is all part of the financial growth process.

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  3. Kayla @ Red Debted Stepchild says

    October 8, 2014 at 4:17 pm

    I got my debt card around that age too, mainly because Walmart and lots of other places started giving checks back and running them electronically anyhow.

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  4. Daisy @ Prairie Eco Thrifter says

    October 12, 2014 at 4:43 pm

    I had my first debit card with my first bank account, which was opened when I was around 5. I didn’t have the pin or anything until I was ~12, but it was handy to have. Sounds like a good decision for your son!

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  5. Brock says

    October 19, 2014 at 10:43 pm

    @Michelle – I had my own bank account as long as I can remember, and when I was in high school although I didn’t have a debit card, I did withdraw and deposit money as I wanted. I think a debit card brings an extra level of discipline to the game, and I think it will be beneficial. Glad to see it worked out well for you!

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  6. Brock says

    October 19, 2014 at 10:44 pm

    @Adam – that’s the key, as long as I can still check periodically to make sure he continues to be wise with his money, and have a few teaching lessons along the way, I think this is a step in the right direction.

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  7. Brock says

    October 19, 2014 at 10:45 pm

    @Kayla – When I was in high school, it was all cash – I didn’t have checks for my account. Although checks are increasingly becoming useless as many businesses don’t accept them anymore, and many that do (as you mentioned) process them immediately anyway.

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  8. Brock says

    October 19, 2014 at 10:46 pm

    @Daisy- Thanks for sharing – sounds like teenagers having a debit card isn’t all that uncommon these days!

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