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	<title>Comments on: The only failure is failing to learn</title>
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		<title>By: Kristy @ Master Your Card</title>
		<link>http://www.cleverdude.com/content/the-only-failure-is-failing-to-learn/comment-page-1/#comment-41132</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristy @ Master Your Card</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 02:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What an interesting post! This is all very life coach of you Clever Dude!

Let&#039;s see, I guess the best example from me is that I&#039;ve learned anything is possible if you really put your mind to it. I think you also demonstrated that pretty well in your own case with the marathon. There may be a lot of mental battles going on, but ultimately, you did it. In my case, it was my freshman year of high school. I was invited to attend a summer long conference that was by special invitation to students within the top 15% of their classes. Along with the prestige came the expense. My parents told me I couldn&#039;t go because I wasn&#039;t working and they didn&#039;t have the money to send me.

I learned that if you really want something, you&#039;ll find a way to make it happen. I spent the entire three months prior to the trip raising money...I went door-to-door asking for donations or offering to complete jobs for money. I mowed lawns, watered the grass, walked dogs, washed windows - tasks my mom had a hard time getting me to do, I did without complaint. I raised the money and attended the conference. It was perhaps the best experience of my life. Anytime I feel like quitting, I ask myself if I&#039;ve fully put my mind to it because, nine times out of ten, the reason I&#039;m failing at something is because I haven&#039;t committed to it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What an interesting post! This is all very life coach of you Clever Dude!</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s see, I guess the best example from me is that I&#8217;ve learned anything is possible if you really put your mind to it. I think you also demonstrated that pretty well in your own case with the marathon. There may be a lot of mental battles going on, but ultimately, you did it. In my case, it was my freshman year of high school. I was invited to attend a summer long conference that was by special invitation to students within the top 15% of their classes. Along with the prestige came the expense. My parents told me I couldn&#8217;t go because I wasn&#8217;t working and they didn&#8217;t have the money to send me.</p>
<p>I learned that if you really want something, you&#8217;ll find a way to make it happen. I spent the entire three months prior to the trip raising money&#8230;I went door-to-door asking for donations or offering to complete jobs for money. I mowed lawns, watered the grass, walked dogs, washed windows &#8211; tasks my mom had a hard time getting me to do, I did without complaint. I raised the money and attended the conference. It was perhaps the best experience of my life. Anytime I feel like quitting, I ask myself if I&#8217;ve fully put my mind to it because, nine times out of ten, the reason I&#8217;m failing at something is because I haven&#8217;t committed to it.</p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 16:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Failure and learning go hand and hand, and although no one wants to fail, you can learn a lot.  Looking back on both work related or personal successes and failures, you can always learn from the events.  Even if you could go back and do it over, would you?  No, because you wouldn&#039;t have grown from the experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Failure and learning go hand and hand, and although no one wants to fail, you can learn a lot.  Looking back on both work related or personal successes and failures, you can always learn from the events.  Even if you could go back and do it over, would you?  No, because you wouldn&#8217;t have grown from the experience.</p>
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		<title>By: Corporate Barbarian</title>
		<link>http://www.cleverdude.com/content/the-only-failure-is-failing-to-learn/comment-page-1/#comment-40229</link>
		<dc:creator>Corporate Barbarian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 15:45:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In order to learn from your defeat, you need to open your mind.  Not opening your mind, and repeating the same actions that caused the defeat in the first place, is irrational.  Giving up after one defeat is quitting.  Giving up after repeated defeats shows an awareness that you&#039;re doing something wrong.  This should lead to self-evaluation, and lead you to change your actions, resulting in overcoming your defeat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In order to learn from your defeat, you need to open your mind.  Not opening your mind, and repeating the same actions that caused the defeat in the first place, is irrational.  Giving up after one defeat is quitting.  Giving up after repeated defeats shows an awareness that you&#8217;re doing something wrong.  This should lead to self-evaluation, and lead you to change your actions, resulting in overcoming your defeat.</p>
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